| tition can be friendly and fun as opposed to | | | | negative remarks about her. Instead of wasting all of |
| back-stabbing and cruel. You do not have to deceive | | | | your insecure energies on trying to cause discomfort in |
| others for your light to shine. We all have different | | | | the confident woman’s life, why don’t |
| talents and abilities, in which makes us unique as | | | | you invest positive energies into improving your own. |
| women. So why are you trying to be like the women | | | | Confident women are confident because they believe |
| that you are competing against? Because you envy | | | | in themselves and their abilities. They know what they |
| them and you are an insecure woman. | | | | are worth and no one can tell them different. They |
| Insecure women have very low self-esteem, no | | | | didn’t get this way by sleeping with the boss or |
| self-confidence, and can’t even begin to think | | | | deceiving others. They earned this confidence |
| self-awareness, resulting in cruel remarks and | | | | because of the struggles in their past, the |
| judgement of other women that they don’t | | | | perseverance in their present, and the contentment in |
| even know. You see, if you were so secure with | | | | their futures. |
| yourself, you probably would have given a compliment | | | | If you are an insecure woman and you are reading this |
| instead of “She thinks she is all of that.” | | | | article.....Get It Together! Stop trying to strip women of |
| You really thought she was all of that, or you | | | | their confidence by digging your self-esteem further |
| wouldn’t have made the comment in the first | | | | and deeper into the ground. Work on yourself, build |
| place. Insecure women have no identity and want so | | | | your confidence and become self-aware. This way, |
| desperately to find one so they seek out the confident | | | | there’ll be no need to envy what another |
| woman and mimic her every move, her mannerisms, | | | | woman has because you’ll be satisfied with |
| and her style and in the same turn, always making | | | | what you already have. |